Frequently asked
Every question we've been asked twice.
If it's not here, our team answers new ones every day. Just call or email.
Dinners & events
What if 8pm is too late for me?
Most dinners seat three tables at staggered times: 7, 7:30, and 8. Tell your matchmaker what works for your schedule and she'll place you accordingly.
How many dinners are there each month?
We host roughly 6-10 dinners a month across metro Atlanta: Buckhead, Midtown, Inman Park, Vinings, Brookhaven, Sandy Springs, Roswell, Alpharetta, Milton, East Cobb, and Chamblee. The calendar posts a month ahead.
How do you match tables?
Our matchmakers hand-build every table using six inputs: age (and the ages you want to meet), profession, education, whether you have or want kids, smoking preference, and hobbies. No algorithms.
Do I get to see photos of the other guests beforehand?
No. That's the whole point. First impressions happen at the table, not on a screen. This is what our members love most and what the apps can't offer.
Will I be seated with the same people more than once?
Not unless it's requested. We keep detailed records so you meet new people at every dinner. If you loved someone at a prior dinner, we'll happily help you meet again.
Can I try before committing to the year?
Yes. The mixers tier gets you six mixers and the holiday gala with the same members. Many people start there and move up to dinners.
Can I join with a friend?
Yes! You can request the same dinner as a friend. Fair warning: our best matches often happen when members come solo and let the matchmakers do their work.
What if I meet someone and want to see them again?
Tell your hostess before you leave and we'll facilitate the introduction. Contact-swapping at the table is welcomed but not required.
The details
What ages do you accept?
Members are 21 and up. That's the only requirement. Your matchmaker seats you with people at a similar stage of life, whatever your age.
What should I wear?
Dress for the restaurant you're going to. Most of ours are business casual to smart casual. No jeans and t-shirt, but no jacket and tie required either.
I'm the quiet type. Will I feel awkward?
Genuinely, no. Your hostess is there to spark conversation, and the group setting means you can listen as much as talk. Many of our best success stories are members who described themselves this way.
Is Eight at Eight a dating service?
Yes and no. We're technically a dinner club, but the whole point is meeting singles you'd want to date. Some members come specifically to date, some to expand their circle. Both work.
Membership
How much does membership cost?
Membership is free. Creating a profile costs nothing. Membership tiers start with mixers (six mixers and the holiday gala) and go up to the annual dinner membership. Your matchmaker walks through pricing on the intro call.
What does the membership cover?
Being a member gives you access to book any dinner or singles mixer on our calendar, gets you matched by our team, and includes the first cocktail at every dinner. Meals themselves are on separate checks paid at the restaurant.
What's your refund policy?
If we cancel a dinner, you're refunded fully. If you cancel with more than 48 hours' notice, you can transfer your seat to a future dinner. Inside 48 hours, seats are non-refundable, because we've already committed to the restaurant.
What if I meet someone? Can I put my membership on hold?
We hope you do! Membership holds are only offered to One on One Matchmaking clients.
Dating etiquette (from our matchmakers)
Do guys still need to open doors for her?
Yes. It's a small gesture that still lands.
Is it okay if I ask her to meet me at the restaurant?
Yes, especially for a first date. It signals independence and takes pressure off the pickup logistics.
Does the guy have to pay for a date?
On a first date, yes, but always offer to split. Reading her response tells you a lot.
Should I bring her flowers?
Not on the first date. Feels heavy. On the second, absolutely.